Implement FunctionTraits to support two kinds of elementwise functor and remove some old codes for broadcast. (#35688)

Revert "Implement FunctionTraits to support two kinds of elementwise functor and remove some old codes for broadcast. (#35487)" (#35686)

Implement FunctionTraits to support two kinds of elementwise functor and remove some old codes for broadcast. (#35487)

multiply supports bool  

* Add the extra flag for the some ops

* fix the compile problem in matmul extra

* add elementwise_pow_grad_npu

* fixed bug for CI

* deal with comments

* fixed bug for CI

* deal with comments

add axis check for elementwise op while the dimension of x is equal to the dimension of tensor (#35340)

* add elementwise max grad op for npu

* add elementwise max grad op for npu

* add elementwise max grad op for npu

* add elementwise max grad op for npu

* add elementwise max grad op for npu

[oneDNN] disable caching oneDNN primitives in  matmul v2, Reduce grad and elementwise_add grad, expand_v2 (#35132)

* - grad caching disabled of matmul_v1

- compilation fix

- compilation fix

* - reduction removed

* - Matmul v2 disabled caching

* Draft of further changes

* - workaround for reducegrad

* - fixes to UT

* - fix to compilation

* - another fix

* - fix

* - Added softmax without caching

* - Binary is no longer manually cached

* - Activation onednn caching removed

* - Removed manual caching of activation

* - modified UT

* - fix

* - fix

* - fixes to building

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix to UT

* - Faulty UT workaround

* - approval workaround

* - Fixes after review

* - compilation fixes

* - more lint fixes

* - more fixes after review

* - fixes after another round of review

* - hopefully compilation fix

- compilation fix

This reverts commit 0a5c99e8.

* - Added softmax without caching

* - Binary is no longer manually cached

* - Activation onednn caching removed

* - Removed manual caching of activation

* - modified UT

* - fix

* - fix

* - fixes to building

* - fix

* - fix

* - fix to UT

* - Faulty UT workaround

* - approval workaround

* - Fixes after review

* - compilation fixes

* - more lint fixes

* - more fixes after review

* - fixes after another round of review

* add broadcast supporting for elementwise_add

* add broadcast supporting for elementwise_add

* add more tests

* remove the redundant code

* update

* fix place error in unittest

* remove skip.If

* enhance error message when x or y is empty in elementwise_op

* format code

* format code

* - fix to #33282

* - Increased threshold for elementwise_mul_bf16 grad

* -disabled faulty UT

* - fix to approval

* refine ~npuOpRunner

* implement destructor and forbid copy

* use reference to avoid copy

* use const reference

* relax adam precision

* fix top_k

* modify complex template for elementwise ops

* modify mul, div grad struct

* add complex template for CudaShuffleDownSync CudaShuffleXorSync funcs and fix the bug when delete cuda<9000

* fix shuffle func args bug

* fix shuffle func args bug

* fix shuffle func args bug

* fix gather op and add logsumexp op on kunlun

* update xpu depence

* update tests and fix elementwise_add