Co-authored-by: Nroot <root@bjhw-sys-rpm0223.bjhw.baidu.com>

Add elementwise XPU OP kernel for KUNLUN core, including (but still cannot process common broadcast

test=develop

There are mainly following fixes:

- take `DeviceContext` as the template parameter of math functors and OpKernel instead of `Place`
- remove `eigen_device` interface in base class  `DeviceContext`
- remove `GetEigenDevice` interface in `ExecutionContext` and base class `DeviceContext`
- remove unused `platform::EigenDeviceConverter`
- rename `REGISTER_OP_GPU_KERNEL` to `REGISTER_OP_CUDA_KERNEL`
- rename `USE_GPU_ONLY_OP` to `USE_CUDA_ONLY_OP`

* Fix documentation

* Address review comments

* conv_shift_op: initial implementation using Eigen

Limitations:
- both gradient outputs must be specified and are always computed
- explicit for loops => could be optimized in various ways
  (e.g., different memory layout)

* conv shift - gradient fixes

fix case when not all output gradients desired

* conv shift: minor cleanup

* conv shift - more minor cleanup

* conv shift: clean up & initial GPU implementation

* fix rebase issue

* Make `PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ` supports custom class, like DDim

* add NDEBUG switch to PADDLE_ENFORCE

* Free will be added soon