Set expected place in child thread for dataloader to avoid costing cuda memory on other card (#30338)

* set expected place in child thread for dataloader

* set device id when set tensor from numpy

* revert tensor_py change

* add compile guard

* fix ci

* fix bug

* rename sendrecv.proto to namespace paddle.distributed

* split ps with distributed

* add save tensor support
Co-authored-by: NseiriosPlus <tangwei12@baidu.com>

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* fix dtype of ungenerated grad var

* update ut

* refine code

* set default dtype

* fix could_use_cudnn bug

* remove debug code

* re-implement

* fix bug

* change to tensor copy sync

* change to tensor copy sync

* make copy_to safe when use TensorCopy

* refine code

* add ut

* add cudapinned garbagecollector

* add testcase: cpu place -> cuda pinned place

* add tensor table

* test=develop, add model_average and lookahead

* add dispenable input 'shape' for core.ops.reshape2

* add dispenable inputs for core.ops.reshape2/expand/slice

* add ut

1. when slice_item is a slice: 
 1) the start of __getitem__ should be std::max(start, 0) if slice
 2) the start of __getitem__ should be std::min(end, dim) 
2. when slice_item is an integer, it should be in [-dim_len, dim_len) 
3. Fix error message to use accurate data

* add topo aware

* resource.h

* topo aware

* format

* zero_copy_tensor supports int8_t

* Revert "[inplace] Add ShareHolderWith for class Variable and SharePlaceholderWith in VarBase.detach() to share the same Tensor/SelectedRows (#29267)"

This reverts commit b10ecd9d.

* Support ShareInplaceVersionCounterWith to share the same inplace version counter for VarBase

* oneps (3/4)
Co-authored-by: NMrChengmo <cmchengmo@163.com>
Co-authored-by: Nmalin10 <malin10@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Nchengmo <chengmo@baidu.com>

* 　add heter box

* add trainer, worker, wrapper...

* format

* for ci

* format

* remove boost get

* boost & copyright

* rename

* 　rename

* format

* format

* format
Co-authored-by: Nyaoxuefeng6 <yaoxuefeng@baidu.com>

* fix fleet for multi-stream

* fix memcpy for ncclid

* use sync to solve move operation

* 添加rocm平台支持代码

* 修改一些问题

* 修改一些歧义并添加备注

* 修改代码格式

* 解决冲突后的代码修改

* 修改operators.cmake

* 修改格式

* 修正错误

* 统一接口

* 修改日期

* support deepcopy for Layer/Tensor/Paramerbase

* fix some code

* add tensor_indices in AssignGroupBySize

* add rebuild group in reducer

* enhance array_to_lod_tensor_op lod_tensor_to_array_op errors information. test=develop

* fix format. test=develop

* format fix. test=develop

* add lod_rank_table. test=develop

* fix format. test=develop

* fix doc info. test=develop

* fix np error

* add unbind dygraph api. test=develop

* fix unbind doc.test=develop

[inplace] Add ShareHolderWith for class Variable and SharePlaceholderWith in VarBase.detach() to share the same Tensor/SelectedRows (#29267)

* basic impl of type promote

* add comment & another testcase

* fix complex bugs & support python op promote type

* fix failed unittests & polish code

* add unittest for coverage

* change to only promote complex type

* polish code details

* polish several comments

* add the weight decay func for the momentum op

* Add the multi_precision function in Momentum Optimizer.

* Make sure that the initial value of master weights are same with the fp16 weights.

* add static loss scaling.

* add the rescale_grad function in the pure fp16 training.

* use the original momentum updating method.

* Polish some codes, such as variable names.

* add docstring for apis.

* update the var creation details of _create_master_weight.

* not modify codes about imperative momentum updating.

* Fix the error of test_dist_sparse_tensor_load_momentum UT.

* add unit test for multi precision fp16 training.

* add more unit tests for CI.

* Use lower threshold values for allclose comparing in test_multi_precision_fp16_train UT.

* For CI Coverage Checking.

* add complex64 and complex128 type; add +-*/@ and slice opreator for complex types

* add test cases for complex elementwise, matmul and getitem unittest

* add test cases for complex types

* add test cases for complex matmul unittest

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* fix coverage

* fix api doc

* fix CI unittest

* fix CI unittest

* fix unitest

* empty tensor does’t need inner_var_

* fix some error message

* Add a class TensorInplaceVersion to count the inplace version and put it in framework::Tensor instead of Allocation or Variable.

* Add a new attribute `_inplace_version` for VarBase.

* Raise exception if an inplace operation can result in incorrect gradient computation.

* Add a new interface _bump_inplace_version() for VarBase to bump the version whenever the Tensor is modified through an inplace operation.

* For api assign, call _bump_inplace_version() when it's an inplace operation inn dynamic mode.

* Use original var_wrapper if the inplace_version is not changed.

* Replace SnapshotVarWrapperList with SnapshotVarWrapper to optimize performane.

* add reducer

* refine envent for memorycopy

* add concat&split for allreduce

* apply concat & split for fuse tensor

* fix nccl dep

* fix the untest, compile problem and ddp initialize problem

* fix untest for mac & add some comments & solve the repeated param in sublayers

* fix untest for windows & fix document

* split train_mode and has_grad

* fix format

* fix ci problems

* fix sample code

* fix tensor detach to zero copy

* fix tensor detach to zero copy