Add use_cinn flag and use it to control whether we run PaddlePaddle using CINN.

Also add:

Replace PaddlePaddle graph with a CINN graph in a pass
PE Method to feed data and run the graph by CINN

* support CUDA Graph on PE

* add ut, fix CI compile

* reduce memory consumption

* fix CUDA 10 CI

* improve coverage

* improve python coverage

* Refine Constructor logic of ParallelExecutor

* Replace executor into ParallelExecutor in run_program_op

* Refine Constructor logic of ParallelExecutor

* refine function name

* refine code comment

* sequential reader stage 1, test=develop

* fix ut, test=develop

* fix iterable=False reset bug, add some logs and polish code, test=develop

* inference feed partial data, test=develop

* Turn on keep_order=True for test, test=develop

* enhance ut to test more cases, test=develop

* test commit for reverting

* Revert "test commit for reverting", test=develop

This reverts commit 80aef42e.

* add ut of merged and unmerged results, test=develop

* add more uts for coverages and add en doc of api, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* change note style, test=develop

* update ScopeBufferedSSAGraphExecutor&AsyncSSAGraphExecutor&ThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&FastThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelExecutor for fetching unmerged results.

* add the unit test for fetch_unmerged.

* update ut for multi-card and multi-cpu.

* add the error message and the user suggestion in FetchOpHandle. test=develop

cmake选项中添加了WITH_NCCL，显示指定是否编译NCCL的部分代码，WITH_NCCL默认打开，但如果WITH_GPU为OFF，则关闭WITH_NCCL

添加了PADDLE_WITH_NCCL定义

单机单卡能够关闭NCCL编译，多卡的话需要默认打开NCCL，如果关闭NCCL，则只能使用单卡
Co-authored-by: N石晓伟 <39303645+Shixiaowei02@users.noreply.github.com>

* fix memory overlapping of fetch var (return of executor.run), test=develop

* fix wrong usage of ParallelExecutor in op_test, test=develop

* remove useless parameter and simplify code

* avoid tensor destruct untimely, test=develop

* add testcase independent of OpTest, test=develop

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* reset drop local scope counter
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* fix broadcast with mp mode

* polish code test=develop

* fix bcast strategy test=develop

* fic cpplint test=develop

* fix py3 failed test=develop

* fix comment test=develop

* update comment test=develop

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* refine parallel_executor

* remove uncessary code
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Reduce one level of inheritence.