Add 'self' parameters to function Cluster::update_pods, use variable name 'cur_proxy' instead of 'proxy' in file 'tools/get_pr_ut.py' (#33377)

* undefined variable proxy

* Cluster::update_pods lacks of parameter self

[Kunlun]Multi xpu dygraph performance optimization , add distributed.spawn support for multi xpu and some bug-fixes (#31130)

* fix ports conflict when launching multi-nodes in paddlecloud;test=develop

* add DISTRIBUTED_TRAINER_ENDPOINTS env for cloud;test=develop

* add dygraph parallel run interface

* polish implement & unified env property name

* add print config arg

* refactor init_parallel_env function

* Compatible with multiprocessing and launch modes

* set default trainer start port

* support run in python 2

* polish python2 support code

* remove python2 support

* refine launch import

* polish dome design details

* refactor api implemention & path

* use new method _set_expected_place

* add spawn unittest framework & mnist test

* add more unittests & doc

* fix unittest failed

* polish english doc

* self review and polish details

* refactor code by reviewer's comments

* fix unittest failed

* fix parallel_env unittest

* fix several typos

* fix error introduced when fixing typos

* add unpublic note for start_processes

* polish details by xiaoguang's comment

* verify correctly when spawn nprocs=-1

* refactor spawn & init_parallel_env design

* polish doc details

* open spawn unittests

* try to fix doc compile error

* try to fix unknown doc format error

* add skip unittest when not gpu

test=develop

* fix the compatibility of PY2 and PY3 in paddle.distributed.launch
test=develop

* only pull log of local rank 0
test=develop

* log exception if UnicodeEncodeError occurs when pulling log in
paddle.distributed.launch
test=develop
Co-authored-by: NSunGaofeng <peakbee@gmail.com>

test=develop

replace join to terminate

* add DataLoader, Dataset, BatchSampler