Set expected place in child thread for dataloader to avoid costing cuda memory on other card (#30338)

* set expected place in child thread for dataloader

* set device id when set tensor from numpy

* revert tensor_py change

* add compile guard

* fix ci

* fix bug

* optimize memcpy perf for kunlun

* remove useless unitest for kunlun mean

* minor

* add sparse embedding & load vars for 2.0

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* fix hdfs gloo

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* fix gloo hdfs

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* move loadvar/sparse embedding from incubute to static

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* rename sendrecv.proto to namespace paddle.distributed

* split ps with distributed

* add save tensor support
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* fix elugradgrad test fail and error message opt

* fix unitest,test=develop

* Update prroi_pool_op.h

fix error message

* opt message,test=develop

* fix ci fail,test=develop

* Fix the accuracy problem of allclose op when using float64 data type in static mode.

* Format the code style.

* fix cmake
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Support vector<double> as type of op attribute and op set_value suppport vector<double> as value (#30126)

* type promotion for grad

* add type promotion for div op

* modify error message based on comments

* edit code according to review.

* Correct spelling according to review.

 add the op error message for the matmul xpu 

* optimize softmax forward

reduce the  occupied size  of memory for the fused pattern of elementwise_add Op and activation Op(relu Op for example) (#29885)

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* - Added UT for testing elementwise_mul caching

* lint fixes

* add cast ops before and after unsupported fp16 ops.

* Keep partial net in FP32 pattern.

* Support check_finite_and_unscale and update_loss_scaling for FP16 calculation mode.

* Add fp16 support for adam op.

* add multi precision attr for adam.

* Fix the bug of test_multi_precision_fp16_train UT.

* Code format for CI.

* Fix the redefine error about MPTypeTrait on windows.

* fix bugs of the _create_accumulators func in Momentum.

* fix bug when inserting post cast op.

* Add the update_loss_scaling op in allow_set of UnusedVarCheck.

* Update for ci coverage.

* Add some doc for OptimizerWithMixedPrecision.

* Fix the code style.

* Imporve the doc of `amp_init`.

* Change for fp16 testing if users have the infer program defined in separate way.

* fix dtype of ungenerated grad var

* update ut

* refine code

* set default dtype

* fix could_use_cudnn bug

* remove debug code

* re-implement

* fix bug

* change to tensor copy sync

* change to tensor copy sync

* make copy_to safe when use TensorCopy

* refine code

* add ut

* add cudapinned garbagecollector

* add testcase: cpu place -> cuda pinned place

* add tensor table