Cherry-pick PR 30103. Add Inplace strategy (Output reuse Input Varbase) in dygraph (#30103) (#30496)

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

Adding uint8 support for squeeze operator.

* Add double grad in Squeeze and Unsqueeze

* Add double grad in Squeeze and Unsqueeze

enhanced ops: unsqueeze, squeeze2, strided_slice, unsqueeze,
unsqueeze2, var_conv_2d, spectral_norm, slice, match_matrix_tensor,
nce, pad, pad_constant_like, filter_by_instag

* fix input shape of op tests for elementwise_sub,
gather, pad2d, transpose, softmax, scale,
elementwise_max, hierarchical_sigmoid, reshape2,
sign, squeeze, reduce_sum, sum, squeeze2,
unsqueeze, unsqueeze2, cast, reverse

test=develop

* fix cast, elementwise_mul, gather, scale, sign,
softmax, transpose

test=develop

There are PythonAPI tests in Op's unittest which don't need to inherit OpTest class.

* improve unsqueeze op to support int, Tensor and Tensor list for argument axes.
test=develop

* call Resize only when necessary. test=develop

* add kernel for unsqueeze_op, test=develop

* add kernel for unsqueeze_op, test=develop

* add kernel for unsqueeze_op, test=develop

* Add intermediate

* fix flatten/squeeze/unsqueeze

* Considering compatibility issues, we could not fix the origin op

* follow comment

* reset the shape of XShape