* fix default value in ps_pb2.py:   delta_keep_days 30 -> 16
* test=develop

* add get_last_save_xbox_base/get_last_save_xbox
* fix fleet_util bug of load paddle model
* add doc string in fleet api

* fix default value of fleet desc, default values are same with jingpai
* print log when save model

add save cache model api in fleet& add slots shuffle in dataset module & add metric op to calculate ctr related metrics (#18871)

* add ctr related metric layer test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* add save cache and slots shuffle test=develop

* fix error

* fix error

* fix style for ci

* fix for comments

* change SlotsShuffle input to std::strinf for generality

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix stylr

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* change non-const reference to pointer

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix style  test=develop

* add return ins num in ctr metric op

* change dtype to float in metric_op.py

* fix error test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix API spec

* fix API spec

* fix API spec test=develop

* add UT test=develop

adjust ins weight according to nid slot , user can specify adjust_ins_weight in strategy

(1) set fleet_send_batch_num a default value according to trainer num， the previous 80000 is fixed，if trainer num is much less or larger than 100，global shuffle may have timeout error.

(2) fix load one table bug, add barrier

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* code style

* code style

* code style

* style

* add delete after unseen days

* add unseen days

* code style

* conflict solve
test=develop

* add clear model

* code style
test=develop

* code style
test=develop

Fix FleetWrapper:
1. fix shrink dense: just scale show
2. add datanorm scale: divide datanorm's gradient by batch_size

The change includes 2 things:

1. save delta model and shrink table are control by the same parameter before, now add delete_after_unseen_days to control shrink table.
2. value in sparse table has no slot before, now add slot in sparse table, and add DownpureCtrAccessor to support the new meta.
test=develop

（1）support patch data （merge slots of instances of same line id, modify dense layer which
changes its size）
（2）add fleet load_one_table interface, support load from paddle model and load from pslib model
（3）fix push sparse bug which cause push sparse cost more time（about 10% in my testcase）
（4）when some slots are not in one of your network (join/update, etc.)，data feed、collect label info、push/pull sparse will skip these slots， instead of throw error.
（5）add more debug info in TrainFilesWithProfiler

* fix save/load in Fleet
* add UT framework of Fleet

Async exe support communicator

test=develop

* support config file, cvm, load, save, shrink
test=develop

* fix error of worker_num & add table.compress_in_save
test=develop

* fix code style
test=develop

* fix save model bug
test=develop

* fix some logic in distributed transpiler, test=develop
* reformat fleet API, test=develop

* implement distributed transpiler with fleet