Add dgc to fleet meta optimizer, rm dgc from optimizer all

This reverts commit ab5a1fb8.

* add gradient Merge optimizer to meta, test=develop

Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server

* fix optimizer.state_dict and LRScheduler.state_dict to save/load dygraph,test=develop

* fix optimizer.state_dict and LRScheduler.state_dict to save/load dygraph,test=develop

* Add a judgment that state_dict/set_dict is used incorrectly,test=develop

* fix some doc error,test=develop

* fix current_step_lr for _LearningRateEpochDecay,test=develop

* remove some unsed code to improve coverage,test=develop

* remove some unsed code to improve coverage,test=develop

* fix optimizer parameter is a iterator; test=develop

* fix parameter list None bug; test=develop

* use is not None; test=develop

* change list to iterable; test=develop

* add device_worker for pipeline, test=develop

* modify pipeline optimizer, test=develop

* add new api: optimizer.set_lr, test=develop

* add API doc and example code for optimizer.set_lr,test=develop

* add API doc and example code for optimizer.set_lr,test=develop

* Modified doc to :api_attr: imperative,test=develop

添加loss自适应的学习率衰减策略。

* allow amp and recompute working together

* Make optimizer consistent in dygraph and static-graph and remove some LOG-INFO

梯度裁剪的策略进行了升级，配合修复相应的 裁剪API、minimize、ParamAttr 的API英文文档。

对应API变动的文档： #23224 

对应中文文档PR：PaddlePaddle/FluidDoc#1942

* prune train program by fetch_list, test=develop

* add unittest for prune, test=develop

* fix pruned feed, test=develop

* support ParallelExecutor and feed prune, test=develop

* add comments, test=develop

* update unittest, test=develop

* update unittests, test=develop

* remove debug code, test=develop

* support cond in clone, test=develop

* support cond in prune, test=develop

* support multiple minimize, test=develop

* support cache, test=develop

* fix _copy_param_info_from, test=develop

* support python2 str, test=develop

* remove debug code, test=develop

* fix bug of caching CompiledProgram, test=develop

* fix multi_device issue, test=develop

* tmp

* support tuple in fetch_list and overriding use_prune, test=develop

* dont use nonlocal in python2, test=develop

* remove nonlocal, test=develop

* code clean, test=develop

* code clean, test=develop

* feed list, test=develop

* test adam, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* reduce duplicate code, test=develop

* update comments, test=develop

* expand parameters, test=develop

* support resnet, test=develop

* fix resnet, test=develop

* support duplicable out, test=develop

* support ptb

* fix bugs, test=develop

* support null input, test=develop

* fix bugs, test=develop

* fix batchNorm is_test, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* fix API param bug of recompute.backward(), test=develop

* add fluid.device_guard to specify the device type for Op

* Refine adam op, test=develop

* Fuse kernels together to reduce cpu time.

* Refine paddle enforce, test=develop

* Remove some comments, test=develop

* Refine code,test=develop

* Refine cuda kernel, test=develop

* Refine code according to comments, test=develop

* polish backward api doc test=develop, test=document_preview,
       test=document_fix

* polish backward api doc test=develop, test=document_preview, test=document_fix

* no_grad supports set of Variable test=develop, test=document_preview

* polish sample code of append_backward test=develop, test=document_preview

* modify assert into Raise TypeError test=develop,test=document_preview

* fix unittest failed test=develop

* rm useless file test=develop

* polish en doc test=develop

* polish code of no_grad_set test=develop

* polish code of no_grad_set test=develop

* add learning rate api; test=develop

* fix uni test converage; test=develop

* fix travis ci error; test=develop

* fix comment; test=develop

* fix example error; test=develop

* polish the api description, test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nzhongpu <2013000149@qq.com>