* Incorporate cudnn_lstm into LSTM api (#27217)

* Incorporate cudnn_lstm into LSTM api.
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* Make coalesce_tensor support alignment optionally.
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* Reorganize RNN apis. test=develop

* Fix cudnn rnn layout conversion.
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* Add sequence_length support for RNN cudnn implement.
Add optional init_h and init_c gradient for cudnn_lstm_op.
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* Use create_parameter for rnn cudnn impl.
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* Move `self._flat_weight = self.create_parameter()` in RNNBase to main_program.
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* Update RNN api unittest to use set_device.
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* Fix set_place for unit tests of RNN apis.
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* Fix use_align in coalesce_tensor_op.
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* Adjust RNN apis arguments according to comments.
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* Polish documents for SimpleRNN apis.
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* Refine random seed in cudnn_lstm_op.
Expose rnn params from sublayers to RNN.
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* Fix RNN saving for jit.save.
Refine cudnn_lstm dropout behavior.
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* Fix doc of GRU. test=develop

* Use ShareDataWith to avoid copying for cudnn_lstm_op test.
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* Remove updates on cudnn_lstm temporarily.
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* Use ShareDataWith to avoid copying for cudnn_lstm_op test.
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* Refine random seed in cudnn_lstm_op.
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* Fix test_lstm by adjust ConcreteProgram buffer getter.
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* Use create_parameter instead of create_var for rnn._flat_weight for static graph usage.
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* Remove W input for cudnn_lstm to pass unused_var_check.
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* Add test_predict for RNN unit tests coverage.
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* Fix code style of rnn.
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* Fix F.rnn usage in rnn.py.
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* Fix test_lstm unittest failed and Add more unittest (#28029)

* fix test_lstm unittest failed

* add more unittest

* modify cmakelist

* fix judgement
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