Use the plugin version of TS lint rather than the external version. Add the plugin as a local dev dependency and add the vscode extension that contributes the plugin as a recomended extension. This should enable the plugin when using the standard version of TS and when using the workspace version of TS

Fixes #59376
Fixes #59344

Fixes #60253

Syncs with master

Fixes #59372

Fixes #60865

Fixes #60447

Fixes #59379

Fixes #60310

Fixes #60291

These packages are only used in build and also have their typings defined in this folder

Using a custom version of the node typings is causing a lot of pain while trying to upgrade our build to use `@types` instead of the `d.ts` files we have to maintain. I believe we primarily maintain our own version for two reason:

- Custom require function
- setTimeout and other timer functions return NodeJs.timer instead of a number

These can both be delt with, the first by using interface augmentation and the second by switching to use any types for timer. I believe that the pain of maintaining our own node `d.ts` outweighs the benefits here

This change switches us to use the standard @types/node package for our node typings

Fixes #59757

This reverts commit 8f20c5ea.