fixes #110501

Things done:
- set pinned more explicitly in many places
- flip the default of enablePreviewFromQuickOpen to false
- change lists/tree to pin if preserveFocus: false after opening

//cc @JacksonKearl

* link protection - read remotes only once on startup

* Reread on potential ocntent changes.
Co-authored-by: NJackson Kearl <jakearl@microsoft.com>

Closes vscode-internalbacklog/1492.

* Update trusted domains to work with IPs.

* Remove `only`s

* Add new matching rules to help text

This needs a better fix, but for remote file systems that require auth this can cause issues if auth requires opening a url

Add notification of the domain that was tried to open when managing trusted domains in the editor
Fix #96855

Ref #97532.
Reasoning is otherwise it would be possible for an extension to simply insert an entry into .git/config. This is still possible in thoery, but at least only for github.

Closes #97532