Add Code Generation for operators,  op makers and argument mapping functions (#41772)

* [Eager] Polish eager code generation

* Remove useless code in codegen

* add nan_inf_utils for eager

* support check nan and inf

* add unittest for coverage

* adapt faster tokenizer op

* add eager test

* add unittest

* update code

* change the return type for inplace dygraph api

* change the tuple construct

* Support Gradient Accumulation for sr

* add ut

* change ut to fit small vector

* speed up accumulation

* remove full reserved strategy

* fix inplace error

* change the output format of C++ backward api

* fix merge conflict

* fix sparse api code auto-gen

* fix eager_gen bug

* fix bug of output is null

* fix bug of conv2d_grad_impl

* fix optional grad

* fix bug of eager-gen double_grad

* fix bug

* fix multiply_double_grad bug

* remove node pruning

* refine pylayer

* refine

* polish grad details

* polish detail by comment

* Support Gradient Accumulation for sr

* add ut

* change ut to fit small vector

* polish code details

* remove needless prefix

* revert needless change

* polish grad func generated format

* fix @ stray error in dygraph

* fix @ stray error in dygraph

* add double yaml

* add inline func

* fix windows compile test case error

* test windows ci

* cmake add onnxruntime

* cmake add onnxruntime

* test windows ci

* auto_code_generator add ort lib copy

* fallback modify windows ci bat

* ci notest;test=document_fix;test=windows_ci_inference;test=windows_ci;test=windows_op

* merge all phi lib to several big static lib

* merge all phi lib to several big static lib

* fix memory issue for eager

* fix bug

[Phi]Separate AddKernel/DivideKernel/SubtractKernel/MultiplyKernel from ElementwiseKernel（Part1） (#41806)

* seperate add/div/sub/mul from elementwise

* delete code

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix bugs when compile

* fix windows unit test bug

* fix ci converage bugs

* create tensor by empty in custom op

* fix some bug

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled double grad test cases in eager_mode for test_imperative_double_grad

* Fixed elementwise issue

* Addressed CI failures

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_imperative_triple_grad test cases under eager_mode

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_autograd_functional_dynamic.py under eager mode

* Enabled more test cases

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_imperative_star_gan_with_gradient_penalty.py under eager mode

* Adjusted test_imperative_star_gan_with_gradient_penalty.py

* support no_need_buffer in eager_fluid state

* change no_need_buffer info from fwd_info to bwd_info

* fix CI fail, gru_unit donnot use no_need_buffer

* fix conflict between no_need_buffer and dispensable

* use tensor.define in dispensable

* solve conflict

* solve conflict

* change cudnn helper for auto-tune

* Add FLAGS_use_autotune to set the global status of autotune and change the order of choosing algorithm.

* Fix the bug in calculating and printing current step cache hit rate.

* Improve the autotune cache and fix unittest.

* Change the key from AlgorithmType to int64_t.

* Fix unittest for cpu-only env.

* change ChooseAlgoByWorkspace for heuristic mode
Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled double grad test cases in eager_mode for test_imperative_double_grad

* Fixed elementwise issue

* Addressed CI failures

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_imperative_triple_grad test cases under eager_mode

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_autograd_functional_dynamic.py under eager mode

* Enabled more test cases

* Fixed performance issues

* Fixed minor issue

* fix new dygraph record event

* refine name

* fix

* fix

* fix according to review

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled double grad test cases in eager_mode for test_imperative_double_grad

* Fixed elementwise issue

* Addressed CI failures

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled test_imperative_triple_grad test cases under eager_mode

* Fixed minor issues

* [DoubleGrad] Enabled double grad test cases in eager_mode for test_imperative_double_grad

* Fixed elementwise issue

* Addressed CI failures