apply buffer_shared_inplace_pass and inplace_addto_op_pass pass to program in Standalone Executor (#45085)

* apply inplace addto in python apply_pass

* fix

* apply inplace pass for program

* skip feed and fetch var

* fix block_desc.move_from

* fix block desc

* alltoall remove inplace

* fix

* [OpAttr]Squeeze axes support Tensor

* add support_tensor

* fix unittest

* fix coverage

* change to async mode for xpu multi-card training in static graph mode

* minor bugfix

* irrelevant. move to another pr

* move change to other pr

* fix stream issue

* fix 'stream not meet with current context' error

* fix branch diverge, test=kunlun

* fix infer tans scop

* fix infer trans scope

* fic infer trans scope

* fic infer trans scope
Co-authored-by: Ndingjiawei <327396238@qq.com>

* transfer bilinear op to phi, change bname from bilinear_interp_v2 to bilinear_interp

* reserve linear_interp param

* fix cross device import

* [OpAttr]Add SupportTensor for OpMaker

* fix typo

* fix code style

* add SupportTensor for concat op

* add unittest for register Tensor

* add shape checker and split attribute

* fix multi stream error.

* use addKernel

* fix compile

* remove elementwiseAddto

* add return

* fix custom place

* fix_stop_gradient

* xpu unittest grad compute supports more types, *test=kunlun

* add instance norm xpu, *test=kunlun

* transfer bicubic_interp op to phi, change name from bicubic_interp_v2 to bicubic_interp

* test final_state_bicubic_interp api

* testcase match imperative case

* fix squared_l2_norm bug

* update buffer.h

* move check finite and unscale kernel into phi

* move infershape into phi

* move update_loss_scaling kernel into phi

* remove original kernels

* move update loss scaling infershape into phi

* add header for xpu and npu

* solve coverage failed

* fix npu test failed

* remove mutable data in cu file

* fix new executor failed

* add valid check for meta tensor output

* initial commit

* fix op maker bug

* fix mul grad bug

* add unittest

* fix add grad bug, add cpu kernel

* add paddle.geometric.message_passing

* add paddle.geometric.send_uv api, add unittest

* add fp16 judgement

* fix file typo, move compute_type to message_op

* add impl file

* fix unittest timeout time

* add review revise

* [Eager draft] forward_only interface migrate to autograd_api

* strings api add dygraph forward function

* rm useless comments

* draft version for check CI

* fix ci

* forward-only no need compute_require_grad and pass stop_gradient, rm useless comments

* polish yaml and using CPUPlace = phi::CPUPlace

* rm useless comments

* polish yaml and update some test case

* rm useless funcs

* polish eager_gen code

* polish code

* convert multihead to oss

* fix:bug

* fix:delete const cast

* fix:don't support bias_qk

* add vit pass

* fix:convert bug and add preln_residual_bias

* support length=-1

* add UT for convert

* add no_bias_qk support for gpu_multihead_op

* delete infer_shape depends on bias_qk

* oss just can be used in T4 and A*

* fix:change api for ROCM CI

* fix_shape

* code style

* fix assert

* fix to_tensor badreturn

* add select_p

* fix bugs

* add custom test for select_p; modify select_p primrules

* modify according to xiaoxu's comment

* add eq_p, select_p, pow_p, use autograd to test grad of high order

* add requirement of autograd, modify expected type of eq

* modify according to xiaoxu's comment

* import primops to use primops.pow

* change name linear_interp_v2 to linear_interp

* fix deprecated_op_names

* deprecated_op_names add linear_interp_grad

* Reduce pool2d test configuration

* Reduce depthwise_conv2d test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_conv2d_fusion test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_conv2d test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_conv2d_transpose test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_hard_swish test configuration

* Enhance trt auto scan test error message and mechanism

* Increase FP16 trt ut tolerance

* fix sync batch norm to inplace