update the error message check for the some ops

add the error message check for the some operator

* fix ports conflict when launching multi-nodes in paddlecloud;test=develop

* add DISTRIBUTED_TRAINER_ENDPOINTS env for cloud;test=develop

* fix strategy, test=develop

* fix can_apply

* optimize slice TRT plugin

This patch removes unnecessary barrier for data transfer of needed offset,
so data transfer can be overlap with GPU kernel execution.

This patch also fixes incorrect name of slice plugin. That is, replaces
"layernorm" with "slice"

test=develop

* add serialize/deserialize to slice plugin

* add static shape slice trt plugin

* fix slice trt op convertor dynamic shape bug

* fix format by clang-format

* fix pylint format error

* fix problems commented by peiyang
Co-authored-by: NRyan Jeng <rjeng@nvidia.com>

Add *.bat file for building compile environment on windows

* polish framework error msg part 6

* polish lossed item

* fix failed unittest

* polish by reviewer comments

* optimize errror report

* add test case for pad op converter

* fix some spelling mistake commented by peiyang

* replace sequence length attr to input

* Remove the cache in post_traning_quantization, test=develop

* fix trt_dynamic_shape_ernie_deserialize_test

* support when opt cache dir does not exist

* improve err report, test=develop

* bug fix, test=develop

Fix conv deepwise bug when in_channels=1.

Enhance the error messages for  files in operators/math

* add check for sparse parameters with weight_decay

* move sparse check to adam.py

* move worker loop to top level

* move reader process loop to top level

* fix failed unittests

Update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op and add an updating_loss_scaling op for static graph amp training. (#26240)

* update amp_check_finite_and_scale_op for static_amp.

* use amp_check_finite_and_scale in static graph amp.

* update grads to zero when grads own infinite values(as for amp_checkout_finite_and_scale op).

* add update_loss_scaling op in cpp.

* add update_loss_scaling_op unit test.

* update the doc of the check_finite_and_unscale op

* Update the process of gradients updating skipping if the gradients have infinite values.

* update the way to zero grads.

* update test_update_loss_scaling_op.py

* add log info when find infinite grads.

* add the unit test for UpdateLossScaling Layer.

* rm auto from localsgd

* Add int8 GRU kernel with UTs

* Lint fixes

* More lint fixes

Error description optimize for math dir

* Fix the lookup_table_v2 failed on GRU mkldnn kernel issue
test=develop

* fix according to reviews, removed x_num_col_dims
test=develop

* update gru model. change according to reviews
test=develop

* change according to reviews
test=develop