On linux, delve RPC server allows only connections from the same user
if --only-same-user is set (true, by default). Do the same for DAP
server.

Moved the sameuser check logic to service/internal/sameuser.
Considered importing service/rpccommon from the dap server,
but when we eventually migrate to multiplex rpc and dap from one
port, I am afraid that can cause cyclic imports.