Fixes #79430: Bring all auto-closing logic in one place which can now also handle multi-character auto-closing pairs

- make it unlikely that a new view instance would accept a view zone id from a previous view instance
- remove that the find widget removes a view zone id from another view
(fixes #71745)

fix microsoft/monaco-editor#1546 - expose registerDeclarationProvider
fix microsoft/monaco-editor#1547 - expose registerSelectionRangeProvider
Signed-off-by: NAnton Kosyakov <anton.kosyakov@typefox.io>

This reverts commit 895d6323.

This reverts commit 64982b60.

This reverts commit 6b3ae436.

For #76442

For #74846

Migrates from using the heap service to have an explicit lifecycle

Part of #74846

Code Actions can use commands internally, which must be disposed of. We were previously using the heap service for this but this will not work for the web. Add a custom lifecycle instead

For #72824