go through our lifecycle when reloading from dev tools (fixes #5409)

src/vs/workbench/electron-main/windows.ts

@@ -853,6 +853,8 @@ export class WindowsManager {
 			WindowsManager.WINDOWS.push(vscodeWindow);
 
 			// Window Events
+			vscodeWindow.win.webContents.removeAllListeners('devtools-reload-page'); // remove built in listener so we can handle this on our own
+			vscodeWindow.win.webContents.on('devtools-reload-page', () => this.reload(vscodeWindow));
 			vscodeWindow.win.webContents.on('crashed', () => this.onWindowError(vscodeWindow, WindowError.CRASHED));
 			vscodeWindow.win.on('unresponsive', () => this.onWindowError(vscodeWindow, WindowError.UNRESPONSIVE));
 			vscodeWindow.win.on('close', () => this.onBeforeWindowClose(vscodeWindow));