enh: adjust batchSize dynamically on retryBackoff

fix: reduce the frequency of retry in sync not ready case while alter db

fix: remove sch status on timeout

Co-authored-by: Nroot <root@fantastic-pipe-1.localdomain>

refact: post sem in vnode while sync timeout

fix: refact some example files

fix: fix invalid retrieved buffer page causing crash

fix: udfd pipe close before send response

fix: remove unused param

refactor: do multiple refactor and improve some query perf.

enh: shielding database option 'strict'

refact: post sem in mnode while sync timeout

fix: fix error in getting pageIdList from group page hash map

ci:add some test for stream