fix: remove --win_service from taosadapter of windows installer (#18269)

* fix: sc create service in tdengine.iss

* fix: upx on windows

* fix: add sc start/stop to installer

* fix: taosadapteer no --win_service

packaging/tools/tdengine.iss

@@ -63,7 +63,7 @@ Source: {#MyAppSourceDir}{#MyAppTaosdemoExeName}; DestDir: "{app}"; Flags: igNor
 
 [run]
 Filename: {sys}\sc.exe; Parameters: "create taosd start= DEMAND binPath= ""C:\\TDengine\\taosd.exe --win_service""" ; Flags: runhidden
-Filename: {sys}\sc.exe; Parameters: "create taosadapter start= DEMAND binPath= ""C:\\TDengine\\taosadapter.exe --win_service""" ; Flags: runhidden
+Filename: {sys}\sc.exe; Parameters: "create taosadapter start= DEMAND binPath= ""C:\\TDengine\\taosadapter.exe""" ; Flags: runhidden
 
 [UninstallRun]
 RunOnceId: "stoptaosd"; Filename: {sys}\sc.exe; Parameters: "stop taosd" ; Flags: runhidden