In order to avoid that misconfigured cluster nodes at some time may
force an IP update on other nodes, it is required that nodes update
their own address only on MEET messages. However it does not make sense
to do this the first time a node is contacted and yet does not have an
IP, we just risk that myself->ip remains not assigned if there are
messages lost or cluster creation procedures that don't make sure
everybody is targeted by at least one incoming MEET message.

Also fix the logging of the IP switch avoiding the :-1 tail.