* open header for custom kernel

* add core utils

* tidy core code

* tify header

* tidy include

* tidy namespace

* resolve conflit

* fix unittest and coverage

* remove platform using

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* fix digamma namespace error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* polish details

* add place for lib storage

* update forward argument mapping

* fix compile failed

* fix test failed

* infermeta context init design

* support infermeta called in fluid op

* add hasattr and attr methods

* add dygraah GetVarPtrs support

* rename arg_map_context to arg_map_utils

* add registry for arg map func

* resolve conflit

* refactor op utils design

* polish meta config

* fix details

* remove hasattr method

* resolve conflit

* revert cmake order change

* revert some change

* change init pos

* fix compile faileed

* fix typo

* fix inference failed

* fix windows ccompile failed

* polish format
Co-authored-by: NWang Huan <wanghuan29@baidu.com>