block unknown option /arch:SSE3 (#37439)

* block unknown option /arch:SSE3

* modify according to zhouwei's comment

cmake/configure.cmake

@@ -32,11 +32,9 @@ if(WITH_AVX AND AVX_FOUND)
     set(SIMD_FLAG ${AVX_FLAG})
     add_definitions(-DPADDLE_WITH_AVX)
 elseif(SSE3_FOUND)
-    set(SIMD_FLAG ${SSE3_FLAG})
-endif()
-
-if (SSE3_FOUND)
-    # TODO: Runtime detection should be used here.
+    if(NOT WIN32)
+        set(SIMD_FLAG ${SSE3_FLAG})
+    endif()
     add_definitions(-DPADDLE_WITH_SSE3)
 endif()