OneDNN md-in-tensor refactoring part 5: Memory descriptor enabled for elementwises, reductions and expand_v2 ops (#43036)

* enabled md in elementwises, reductions and expand_v2

* CI fix for invalid numpy copy

* fixed formatting

* CI rerun

* changes after review

* changes for md in tensor

* ci fix

* Temporarily limited dims for test

* ci fix

* removed unnecessary includes

* added reviewers suggestions

* checkouted two files to avoid changing more than 19 in single PR

* minor fix

* reverted one file to reduce files changed to 19

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* #1 migrate dist-related type()-> dtype()

* move datatype function from pten -> fluid/framework

* change type() in imperative into convert(dtype())

* modify xx_tensor->type into xx_tensor->dtype

* change the set_type interface and the caller

* modify xx_tensor.type into xx_tensor.dtype

* fix mutable_data(place, dtype())

* change caller of mutable_data in pten and distributed

* change the caller of mutable_data in fluid/framework

* change the caller of mutable_data in imperative directory

* mutable_data: inference

* update the call of mutable_data

* transfer MakePenScalarArray MakePtenScalar ResetHolderWithType

* pass the compile. the next step is remove VarType in Pten

* fix all and remove VarType from pten. success in linux. Next task is other platform

* fix conflict with develop

* fix compiled error

* Fix reset conversion

* fix conflict

* fix compiled problem

* fix typo

* Fix << in tensor_utils.cc

* fix type->dtype

* fix unittest

* fix tensor init constructor

* fix DataTypeSize for BFloat16

* fix code style

* fix npu compiled error

* fix npu

* compile npu sucessfully

* fix conflict

* fix conflict
Co-authored-by: Nxiongkun <xiongkun03@baidu.com>

* - REorder disabling caching

* - compilation fix

* - another compilation fix

* - another compilation fix

* - compilation fix

* - Fix

* - yet another compilation fix

* - suppresingly another compilation fix

* - lint

* - fix after review

* - fix

[oneDNN] disable caching oneDNN primitives in  matmul v2, Reduce grad and elementwise_add grad, expand_v2 (#35132)

* - grad caching disabled of matmul_v1

- compilation fix

- compilation fix

* - reduction removed

* - Matmul v2 disabled caching

* Draft of further changes

* - workaround for reducegrad

* - fixes to UT

* - fix to compilation

* - another fix

* - fix

* added expand_v2 bf16/fp32 kernel

* minor change

* CI fix

* added missing test file

* added formatting

* reduced binary size

* CI fix