* add pybind interface to get all inplace ops, test=develop

* enhance OpTest to check whether the consistency of operator when using and not using inplace, test=develop

* handle corner cases in op_test, test=develop

* support outputs without tensor holder_, like XShape in reshape_op, test=develop

* fix bug, some op has GradOpMaker, but actually no grad_op in OpInfoMap, test=develop

* use reshape_grad instead of reshape in FlattenGradOp, test=develop

* fix error debug dims info for variables like XShape, test=develop

* change computational order in sum_op to relieve computation difference using inplace, test=develop

* add inplace_atol to check group_norm, and skip inplace_grad for mkldnn, test=develop

* follow sneaxiy's comments, test=develop

* remove unused DefaultGradOpDescMaker in mkldnn op, test=develop

* add use_cuda to inplace pass,test=develop

* add test softmax_with_xe_inplace test,test=develop

* fix cdn issue, test=develop

* fix memory optimize bugs, test=develop

* fix memory optimize bugs, test=develop

* remove add/sub_2 op, test=develop

* disable memory_optimize by default, test=develop

* disable inplace activation in python, test=develop

* fix unittests, test=develop

* fix unittests, test=develop

* bug-fix, test=develop

* Add intermediate

* fix flatten/squeeze/unsqueeze

* Considering compatibility issues, we could not fix the origin op

* follow comment

* reset the shape of XShape

* add flatten op