* open header for custom kernel

* add core utils

* tidy core code

* tify header

* tidy include

* tidy namespace

* resolve conflit

* fix unittest and coverage

* remove platform using

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* fix digamma namespace error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* polish details

* add place for lib storage

* update forward argument mapping

* fix compile failed

* fix test failed

* refactor scale kernel that its input is selected_rows

* complement upload file

* move digamma to pten; test=develop

* fix mutable_data bugs; test=develop

* remove useless code; test=develop

* remove kernel compute; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* remove remake densetensor

* fix eager test error

* fix bug in eager

* implement AllocateFrom

* remove WriteBackOutput

* fix problem of eager
Co-authored-by: Nzkh2016 <zhangkaihuo@baidu.com>

* add constructor for win

* change impl

* fix bug

* remove remake densetensor

* fix eager test error

* fix bug in eager

* Support allocate_from in Tensor and allocate_data in Context

* fix #ifdef CUDA

* fix cycle depends

* fix test_xxx_dev_api failed

* fix windows compiling error

* fix unittest

* modify into PImpl

* fix selected rows

* add TODO comment

* refine interface according reviewer

* add infermeta registry

* add infermeta registry

* add unittest

* polish details

* [Demo] custom kernel based on pten kernel

* merge and npu custom work well

* del comments

* delete other code

* fix CUDAContext

* fix not found small_vector.h

* support NPU

* fix NPUContext

* fix DeviceContext support

* add UT

* fix call

* add UT

* fix

* fix for comments and ut

* add MACRO control

* fix multi input output

* support env CUSTOM_DEVICE_ROOT

* deal with special cases

* fix for Windows

* try coverage with test_custom_kernel_dot.py

* fix test_custom_kernel_dot

* fix test_custom_kernel_dot

* fix merge

* fix merge

* fix CI

* update

* merge and fix

* remove WITH_CUSTOM_KERNEL

* fix merge

* merge and fix

* fix ut

* fix ut for mac

* add more UT

* add more UT

* fix

* add full_kernel xpu

* fix full xpu register device type error

* fix full kernel bug

* add fulllike kernel impl and replace with raw kernel

* fix dev_ctx convert template args error

* modify namespace and header file

* add isinf check

* fix input type args in TensorSetConstantXPU error

* optimize kunlun/xpu softmax_with_cross_entropy add add unitest
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun

* fix bug:
1. atten: set the default value of attn_dropout_rate to None
2. ffn: add activation parameter

* for pure fp16

* Add a SparseCsrTensor

* remove unused functional

* remove const

* remove SetMemoberTensor

* remove non_zero_nums_, the number of non zero elements of each batch can be obtained from the crows

* SparseCooTensor

* add SetMember

* merge upstream; add SetMember

* merge upstream

* merge upstream; add newline at end of file

* add newline at end of file

* remove newline at end of file

* remove newline at end of file

* stash

* user pten::framework::make_ddim

* user pten::framework::make_ddim

* merge upstream; use the latest mutable_data

* merge upstream; use the latest mutable_data

* return mutable dense tensor

* update cmake file to remove fluid kernel

* add pten declaration.h to where pybind.h used

* fix sync_bn and tensorrt_engine

* refine detection_library

* fix interpreter_core

* support eager legacy

* fit eager legacy for pten

* fall back to cpu if not found kernel

* fix compile problem

* fix compile problem

* refine fallback logic

* fit operator.run()

* fix xpu compile

* fit for new_exec

* add REGISTER_OP_WITHOUT_GRADIENT

* un-cache pt_kernel_context

* fix compile

* fix cudnn

* fix compiling with on_infer

* fix mkldnn

* fix isfinite_v2

* fix xpu problem

* fix op_device

* refine fallback for xpu

* fix xpu compile

* merge develop

* refine code format

* fix compile

* fix compile

* add data_transfer

* fix PreparePtenData

* fix cpu context

* merge develop

* fix compile

* fix error device context

* fix xpu

* fix dev_ctx

* cast xpu kernel init

* cast xpu kernel

* replace with raw cast xpu kernel

* fix cast kernel bug

* add the missing break

* modify namespace and header file

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Selected_Rows inherits from TensorBase

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

* Use paddle/pten/core/enforce and polish code

* Use pten::DataType instead of using proto_type

* Move part of data_type to pten

* Polish Code

* move kernel_primitives

* use pten's errors

* add eigen deps

* update

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Selected_Rows inherits from TensorBase

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

* Use paddle/pten/core/enforce and polish code

* infermeta context init design

* support infermeta called in fluid op

* add hasattr and attr methods

* add dygraah GetVarPtrs support

* rename arg_map_context to arg_map_utils

* add registry for arg map func

* resolve conflit

* refactor op utils design

* polish meta config

* fix details

* remove hasattr method

* resolve conflit

* revert cmake order change

* revert some change

* change init pos

* fix compile faileed

* fix typo

* fix inference failed

* fix windows ccompile failed

* polish format
Co-authored-by: NWang Huan <wanghuan29@baidu.com>

This reverts commit 9059ef69.

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

* transfer: string tinyformat errors and part of enforce into pten

* remove comment

* fix by code review

* assert is not compile in -DNDEBUG

* add string as dependences of paddle_inference

* add scale xpu kernel

* add scale xpu kernel

* add scale xpu kernel

* replace with pten scale kernel

* change dev_ctx

* modify float16 head path

* remove unused xpu header

[Pten]Refactor elementwise_add grad / double grad / triple grad Kernel and move them to pten (#39048)

* refactor elementwise add grad

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bugs

* fix file conflicts

* fix bugs when buildPtenContext

* migration of functors in paddle/fluid/operators/eigen and paddle/fluid/platform/eigen_ext.h
* update path of data types like float16.h in includes in extensions.h

Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>