[cherry-pick] faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11(#22230)

* test=develop, bug fix for sparse recorder

[cherry-pick] #22191
- 添加了fluid-lite子图方式运行resnet的单测
- 修改了依赖Lite的git commit id

* add NotImplementedError for multi optimizers used on multi-places . test=develop

* assert error only if num_devices>1. test=develop

* set test_optimizer_in_control_flow in CMakeLists for using multi-GPU.test=develop

* polish executor hint message, test=develop

* fix punctuation error, test=develop

* test Optimizer in dygraph, test=develop

* add optest for Optimizer in dygraph, test=develop

* fix adagrad optimizer, test=develop

* fix dpsgd optimizer, test=develop

* fix test_optimizer.py, test=develop

* fix dpsgd optimizer, this op only support cpu, test=develop

* add optest for optimizer, test=develop

* add description for dpsgd, test=develop

* add rmsprop to white_list in unused_var_check.cc, test=develop

* polish code style, test=develop

* polish code style, test=develop

* delete seed attribute for DpsgdOptimizer, test=develop

* change testing to debugging, test=develop

* use snake_cased Layer name

* add named_parameters and named_sublayers api

* add include_sublayers param, add unittest
test=develop

* fix named unittests
test=develop

* fix unittest
test=develop

* add api docs
test=develop

* arg fix
test=develop

* reserve rnn_impl name_scope for static graph
test=develop

* fix load static param
test=develop

* fix load static param
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* add clear_gradients for Optimizer, add api description, test=develop

* fix optest for optimizer's clear_gradient interface, test=develop

* add sample code, test=develop

* polish sample code, test=develop

* update layers, test=develop

* update layers for resnet, test=develop

* fix is_test attr, test=develop

* update cycle_gan, test=develop

* update reinforcement_learning, test=develop

* update ocr, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* Polish the PADDLE_ENFORCE in fusion_group pass related codes.
test=develop

* Correct the unittest because of the change relu_grad's formula.
test=develop

tweak the interface of cache_third_party function - expose the SOURCE_DIR for each external library (#21899)

* update PRelu arg
test=develop

* fix unittests
test=develop

* fix element mode alpha shape
test=develop

* split channel_or_input_shape arg
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* fix unittest
test=develop

* add support for nested profiling event and printing in different level

* add example for reshape op

stack's wait cost a lot of cpu time, use cuda kernel to do memory copy
will reduce cpu time.
Signed-off-by: Nzhaoyuchen <zhaoyuchen01@baidu.com>

* modify fc to linear in sample code, test=develop

* remove FC, test=develop

* remove warnings, test=develop

* drop fluid/imperative/README.md , test=develop

* change fc to linear, test=develop

* polish code style, test=develop

Add coverage data processing tools.

1. Add a new input named batch_roi_nums for prroi_pool_op. batch_roi_nums includes the number of roi for each image in batch when rois is Tensor. This information is saved in rois's lod when rois is LoDTensor.
2. add grad check to prroi_pool_op and solve unnormal X grad diff in CPU.