removing more calls to deprecated methods

activerecord/lib/active_record/associations/has_many_association.rb

@@ -67,9 +67,10 @@ def delete_records(records)
               @reflection.klass.delete(records.map { |record| record.id })
             else
               relation = Arel::Table.new(@reflection.table_name)
-              relation.where(relation[@reflection.primary_key_name].eq(@owner.id).
+              stmt = relation.where(relation[@reflection.primary_key_name].eq(@owner.id).
                   and(relation[@reflection.klass.primary_key].in(records.map { |r| r.id }))
-              ).update(relation[@reflection.primary_key_name] => nil)
+              ).compile_update(relation[@reflection.primary_key_name] => nil)
+              @owner.connection.update stmt.to_sql
 
               @owner.class.update_counters(@owner.id, cached_counter_attribute_name => -records.size) if has_cached_counter?
           end

activerecord/lib/active_record/counter_cache.rb

@@ -30,9 +30,10 @@ def reset_counters(id, *counters)
         reflection   = belongs_to.find { |e| e.class_name == expected_name }
         counter_name = reflection.counter_cache_column
 
-        self.unscoped.where(arel_table[self.primary_key].eq(object.id)).arel.update({
+        stmt = unscoped.where(arel_table[primary_key].eq(object.id)).arel.compile_update({
           arel_table[counter_name] => object.send(association).count
         })
+        connection.update stmt.to_sql
       end
       return true
     end

activerecord/lib/active_record/relation.rb

@@ -156,7 +156,8 @@ def update_all(updates, conditions = nil, options = {})
       else
         # Apply limit and order only if they're both present
         if @limit_value.present? == @order_values.present?
-          arel.update(Arel::SqlLiteral.new(@klass.send(:sanitize_sql_for_assignment, updates)))
+          stmt = arel.compile_update(Arel::SqlLiteral.new(@klass.send(:sanitize_sql_for_assignment, updates)))
+          @klass.connection.update stmt.to_sql
         else
           except(:limit, :order).update_all(updates)
         end