`inverse_of` on through associations was accidently removed/caused to
stop working in commit f8d2899d which was part of a refactoring on
`ThroughReflection`.

To fix we moved `inverse_of` and `check_validity_of_inverse!` to the
`AbstractReflection` so it's available to the `ThroughReflection`
without having to dup any methods. We then need to delegate `inverse_name`
method in `ThroughReflection`. `inverse_name` can't be moved to
`AbstractReflection` without moving methods that set the instance
variable `@automatic_inverse_of`.

This adds a test that ensures that `inverse_of` on a `ThroughReflection`
returns the correct class name, and the correct record for the inverse
relationship.

Fixes #21692