* conv_shift_op: initial implementation using Eigen

Limitations:
- both gradient outputs must be specified and are always computed
- explicit for loops => could be optimized in various ways
  (e.g., different memory layout)

* conv shift - gradient fixes

fix case when not all output gradients desired

* conv shift: minor cleanup

* conv shift - more minor cleanup

* conv shift: clean up & initial GPU implementation

* fix rebase issue

* Make `PADDLE_ENFORCE_EQ` supports custom class, like DDim

* add NDEBUG switch to PADDLE_ENFORCE

* Free will be added soon