* Merge conflicts with 1.4

* Resolve conflicts

* Fix some comments

test=release/1.4

* Fix py3 error

test=release/1.4

* add lod_tensor util and modify pybind

* refind pybind LoDTensor API and modify LoDTensor and DataFeeder test

* fix test error

* fix detection map op test

* fix reorder_lod_tensor test

* fix seq_concat_op

* fix chunk evel op test

* fix target assign op

* fix warp ctc op

* address comments step 1: reverse reset_lod op

* step 2: modify op test

* add warning message

* remove has_valid_lod

* add back has_valid_lod

* address comments

* add exception catching trial

* "init benchmark ops"

* "untrack outputs"

* "delete some usused code"

* "benchmark"

* "fix ci"

* "fix op test"

* "fix uint16 missing"

* "fix ci"

* "follow comments"

* "fix ci"

* "follow comments"

* "conficts. merge develop branch"

* repick

* "merge develop branch"

Currently, our tests run with 2 GPUs, the init time is absurdly long:
about 4s for each process.  Currently, we run each OP test on
different processes. This PR:

1. create cmake function py_test_modules which will generate the
Makefile that runs a list of Python unittest module in a single Python
process.

2. move all "python unittest compatible" (e.g., used the unittest
package, not just a regular python file). from fluid/tests to
fluid/tests/unittests.

3. cmake now will run all OP tests in fluid/tests/unittests in a
single process, except the time-consuming tests, they are separated
into different processes to utilize parallelism. Please make sure to
use the unittest package if you put the python test file in
fluid/tests/unittests

4. remove all exit(0) from fluid/tests/unittests/*.py, exit(0) is used
to disable unittest, we can not do it when running all tests in a
single process since it will terminate the process without running the
other tests. Instead, the test is disabled in
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt. FIXME is added for each disabled
item. Please disable the unittest from
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt, instead of adding exit(0) to the
Python file, for all Python file in fluid/tests/unittests/.

5. add an option WITH_FAST_BUNDLE_TEST. When OFF, will run the unit
tests in separate process so that they can be tested individually.

* "fix decode bug"

* "follow commnet"

* "fix error"

* "fix hook bug"

* fix based comment

* fix copyright

* fix based on comment

* add copyright hook

* add copyright hook

* refine copyright hook

* "test copyright hook"

* fix check style

* fix ci

* init commit

* change some dir name

1. user can disable peephole connections.
2. not calculate some gradients.

Use fixed activation in the lstm kernel, since there is some bug in the activation function pointer. It will be fixed later.