Add flatten op interface and enhance APIs about detection to support variable-length image. (#12422)

* add flatten api&enhance detection api

* unify shape_op data type

* update API.spec

* Fix infer shape of crop op.
* Speed crop op.

* Add Preface

* Add demo code

* Save file

* Refine code

* seems can work

* use elementwise strategy

* Use ElementwiseComputeEx

* Add comments

* extract functions from operator

* Refine code

* Follow comment

* code refine

* follow comments

* follow comments

* polish dist se resnext ut

* update

* update

* update

* avoid cpu initializer differ

* change to use executor for now

* update by comment

* remove lr decay use para exe, should fix para exe bug later

* update by comment

* "add gradient register"

* "make some enhance"

* "better format"

* "fix typo"

* "fix reuse"

* "fix get expected kernel"

* "change the mkldnn code"

* "fix mkldnn"

* "fix mkldnn failed test"

* "add comment"

Add a few more RecordEvent.
Cleanup

* Introduced by #11205

* "remove inplace in single op"

* "fix ci"

* "add transpiler case"

* fix conflict

* "fix reshape"

* "delete reshape inplace attr"

* "follo the comments"

* "rerun ci"