* fix save/load in fleet (#17675)

* fix save/load in Fleet
* add UT framework of Fleet (#18058)

* add paddle cloud role maker for customized usage, note this is only for industrial users that have cloud environment pre-configuration (#18121)

add paddle cloud role maker for specific cloud usage. This pr will simplifies user's configuration in distributed training.

* assign role_maker before use (#18137)

* fix nccl2 lars dist support

* put lars in momentum op

* add tests lars

* fix ci

* fix cpu kernel

* soft warning

* remove lars in test_recognize_digits.py

* move to another op

* add file

* update api.spec test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix api.spec test=develop

* wip

* wip, finish grad merge ops

* wip, finish graph build

* wip test running

* work on 1 gpu

* workable version

* update

* fix tests

* fuse broadcast op

* fix compile failed

* refine

* add batch merge test mnist

* fix CI test=develop

* fix build

* use independent bn params for batch merge test=develop

* update api.spec

* follow comments and for test

* wip

* refine tests test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* remove startup bn modify test=develop

* follow comments test=develop

* fix merge test=develop