* fix the bug of reusing different types of variables in memory_optimiz… (#16547)

* fix the bug of reusing different types of variables in memory_optimize_pass, test=develop

* disable SELECTED_ROWS AND LOD_TENSOR_ARRAY reusage, test=develop

* only use the latest version variable for inplace strategy (#16736)

* bug-fix, test=develop

* tweak code, test=develop

* cherry-pick PR 16547,16736,16739 test=release/1.4

* Imperative deep-first backward process (#16605)

* Fix bug of gradient interface

* shrink transformer

* Right transformer

* Change from width-first backward to deep-first backward process

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* Reverse iterator op's input

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* Polish code

* Change the iteration direction in ingrads' map slots

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* Polish code

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* test=develop, cherry-pick fix for transformer in dygraph

* test=develop, fix transformer in dygraph
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* fix the bug of all_reduce_deps_pass
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fix load bug about context.place

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* fix preprocess script with processbar, integrity check and logs

* delete unnecessary empty lines, change function name

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* Add linear learning warmup method

This warmup lr can be combinated with other learning rate strategies.
For example:
            decayed_lr = fluid.layers.linear_lr_warmup(
                fluid.layers.piecewise_decay(boundaries, lr_steps),
                warmup_steps, start_lr, end_lr)

* fix cudnn batch norm accuracy test=develop

* fix cudnn batch norm accuracy test=develop

* disable failed test for later fix test=develop

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* fix compiled
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* follow comments test=develop

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* Add DecoupledWeightDecay

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* fix comments of 16410, test=develop

* modify inplace_op_inference_test according to pass interface change, test=develop

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