Created by: liym27

cherry-pick #20997

fix bug in pool/conv/conv_transpose:

1. It should be stride[i] not stride[0] in UpdatePaddingAndDilation;

2. fix bug of function _get_padding_with_SAME in test_conv/conv_transpose_op.py;

3. fix bug of the computation process in function conv2dtranspose_forward_naive.