cherry-pick : #46016, #46021, #45974

* [Sparse]Sparse add support gpu (#45974)

* [Sparse]Remove unused code (#46021)

* [Sparse] Add infer meta (#46016)

* add sparse api coalesce

* remove storage

* add glog include

* add glog include

* add glog include

* move the common function to kernel/funcs/sparse/

* add namespace

* rm unused file

* move func

* reuse code

* remove storage deps of empty

* remove invalid empty method

* remove error empty using

* fix test_sparse_utils_dev_api

* revert some sparse change

* add memset for conv grad

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* fix incorrect dims settings

* sparse conv3d

* fix out dims

* test performance

* test large shape success

* opt scatter, double performance

* test float16

* remove profiling code

* remove pten

* opt code lines

* correct boundary judgment

* only cpu

* test ci

* test ci

* remove the including paddle/fluid header; extract the conmmon function

* opt code lines

* use DenseTensor::data() instead of mutable_data

* return rulebook for backward

* specify layout

* rename:conv -> sparse_conv3d

* change Vector to std::vector and provide MixVector class as a helper wrapper class

* solve the multi-gpu hang problem

* remove the duplicate template instantialize

* Copy vector to cpu

* add CopyToCPU

* xxx

* final version: fix the problem of all reduce

* remove mixvector dependence

* fix

* merge

* fix code

* fix by CI

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix code conflict

* clear cache

* just try

* implement AllocateFrom

* dense_to_sparse_coo

* optimize unit testing; support rocm

* 1. delete fluid related header file
2. update the copyright

* fix hipMemcpy

* update dense_to_sparsecoo

* add namespace sparse

* sparse_csr_to_dense

* test to_sparse_coo: csr_to_coo

* fix writing error

* to_sparse_csr: dense_to_sparse_csr and sparse_coo_to_csr

* fix check shape

* fix unit test

* to_dense: sparse_coo_to_dense, sparse_csr_to_dense

* replace CUDADeviceContext by GPUContext

* implement AllocateFrom

* dense_to_sparse_coo

* optimize unit testing; support rocm

* 1. delete fluid related header file
2. update the copyright

* fix hipMemcpy

* update dense_to_sparsecoo

* add namespace sparse

* sparse_csr_to_dense

* test to_sparse_coo: csr_to_coo

* fix writing error

* to_sparse_csr: dense_to_sparse_csr and sparse_coo_to_csr

* fix check shape

* fix unit test

* replace CUDADeviceContext by GPUContext

* dense_to_sparse_coo

* optimize unit testing; support rocm

* 1. delete fluid related header file
2. update the copyright

* fix hipMemcpy

* update dense_to_sparsecoo

* add namespace sparse

* sparse_csr_to_dense

* test to_sparse_coo: csr_to_coo

* fix writing error

* dense_to_sparse_coo

* optimize unit testing; support rocm

* 1. delete fluid related header file
2. update the copyright

* fix hipMemcpy

* update dense_to_sparsecoo

* add namespace sparse