Improve elementwise operators performance in same dimensions

* How to write custom op needs to follow framework OP spec.
* Package fluid_framework.so and headers into whl.
* Add paddle.sysconfig.get_include() and paddle.sysconfig.get_lib() to get include dir and lib dir.
* Export some C-APIs to merge OpInfo between core.so and custom_op.so.
* Add unit testing.
* Update API.spec.

* fix pool2d pool3d:
1. support asymmetric padding;
2. support padding algorithm:"SAME" and "VALID";
3. support channel_last: data_format NHWC and NDHWC;
4. support inferring shape when input with negative dims in compile time;
5. change doc of python API and c++;
6. fix bug in cuda kernel when Attr(adaptive) is true.

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* fix 'tensors' to 'Tensors'. test=develop,test=document_preview

* add test for converage ValueError.test=develop,test=document_preview

* resolve conflict in test_pool2d. test=develop

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* Add the dynamic load of nvrtc, and support runtime compiling of CUDA kernel using nvrtc.
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* Call CUDA driver api to launch the kernel compiled by nvrtc.
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* Disable for mac and windows.
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* Refine the codes to support manually specified num_threads and workload_per_thread.
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* Refine the CUDA kernel to support large dims.
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* Implement the operator with sprase matrix multiply

* Update the URL of mklml library.

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* Disable MKLML implematation when using no-linux.

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* Ignore the deprecated status for windows

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* add tensorrt support for windows

* fix warpctc.dll not found issue, test=develop

* revert the linux platform change, test=develop

* delete warpctc_lib_path.h.in, test=develop

* add SetPySitePackagePath function

* fix warpctc.dylib not found issue on Mac, test=develop

* improve the paddle lib path setting logic, test=develop

* fix mac ci issue caused by test_warpctc_op unittest, test=develop

* tweak code, test=develop

Also fix a dependency error which may cause compile error

* fix prepare context redundant code problem, optimize executor by caching create_varaiables
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* supports collective training in executor

* make fetch_list runable with variables, add more unittest for use_program_cache
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* fix comment
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* use unique name for nccl_id

* supports output to stream in program_to_code

* insert sync_comm_stream before regularization; add skip_op_callstack capability in program_to_code

* set op role in collective training

* add collective op role

* remove orig file

* add build optimizer by strategy

* add collective strategy

* refine collective strategy

* add multi-process role maker

* refine strategy building factory so that we can easily plugin more strategy

* scale loss grad in collective sgd transpiler

* add support for distributed fc

* code format

* revert some features for dist fc

* add support for distributed fc training

* fix prepare context redundant code problem, optimize executor by caching create_varaiables
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* supports collective training in executor

* make fetch_list runable with variables, add more unittest for use_program_cache
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* use unique name for nccl_id

* supports output to stream in program_to_code

* insert sync_comm_stream before regularization; add skip_op_callstack capability in program_to_code

* set op role in collective training

* add collective op role

* fix comment
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* remove orig file

* add build optimizer by strategy

* add collective strategy

* refine collective strategy

* add multi-process role maker

* refine strategy building factory so that we can easily plugin more strategy

* scale loss grad in collective sgd transpiler

* add support for distributed fc

* code format

* revert some features for dist fc

* add support for distributed fc training

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add collective op unittest standard

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remove the test_collective directory

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remove the test_collective directory

* remove slicegather test

* code format for reducescatter

* update attr of shard_index_op

* Modify macro nccl_helper

* remove test without distribute

* macro collective_helper

* marcro update

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update support python3.5

* test=develop change gpu memory use to 0.1 when test

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update ut equal func

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set flags to 1.5

* test=develop fix pickle dumple  py35

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fix divide in slice and add sync_comm_stream
update atol and rtol to 1e-05
rm shard_index op and test
modify read input from file to read from memory
remove origin_program in framework and add i/o in c_sync_calc_stream

* test=develop update unittest sync operator I/O

* revise conv layer cudnn algo choose test=develop

* update for code style test=develop

* update for code style test=develop

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* remove unused FLAGS_warpctc_dir

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* remove FLAGS_warpctc_dir

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This reverts commit c38c7c56.

* link the libwbaes.so into paddle

* polish detail, test=develop

* try fix mac_pr_ci error, test=develop

* add compile option, test=develop

* fix ci error, test=develop

* ignore failed to find mac lib, test=develop

* change cdn to bj, cdn can't get the latest version

* trigger ci, test=develop

* temporary delete win32 lib linking, test=develop

* change https to http, test=develop

* turn compile option on to off

* turn compile option off to on, test=develop

* try lib compiled by gcc4.8, test=develop

* update lib version, test=develop

* link other lib, test=develop

* add setup config

* delete false, test=develop

* delete no_soname, test=develop

* recover so name set

* fix, test=develop

* adjust make config, test=develop

* remove link to wbaes, test=develop

* remove useless define, test=develop

* staged.

* polish code

* polish code. test=develop

* polish code. test=develop

* api change. test=develop

* fix default value. test=develop

* fix default value. test=develop

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* staged.

* polish code

* polish code. test=develop

* polish code. test=develop

* api change. test=develop

* fix default value. test=develop

* fix default value. test=develop

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* Revert "Optimze Gelu with MKL Erf function (#15770)"

This reverts commit 676995c8.

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* Optimize for gelu operator

* Set up the low accuracy mode of MKL ERF function.

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* Only enable MKLML ERF when OS is linux

* Use the speical mklml version included vmsErf function to verify gelu mkl kernel.

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* Add the CUDA macro to avoid NVCC's compile issue.

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* Add the TODO comments for mklml library modification.

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* Clean Code

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* Add the comment of marco for NVCC compiler.

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* refine cublase
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* code refine

* refine cublas

* add GEMME_EX

* add enable_cublas_tensor_op_math doc and add cublasCall
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* fix CublasCall for cuda version
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* fix error
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* fix GEMM_EX to be compatible with gcc 4.8
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* add GEMM_EX
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* to compatiable with gcc4.8
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* add recordio support

* disable the openblas multi-thread on windows since no support
adjust the python script

* code style

* code style
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* add create_recordio_file_reader back

* fix code style
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* fix the gtest.cmake on windows

* fix cc_test on windows

* fix the win build
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* remove fused compile support on windows
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* add the jit support
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* add the jit support, test=develop

* add the jit support, test=develop

* add the jit back
fix compile error on windows

* rollback test=develop

* test case fix

* disable DSO by default on windows

* exclude warpctc_op on windows

* exclude the dynload_warpctc out on windows
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* fix the scripts error
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* disable avx on windows by default
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* re-organize the cmake file

* disable mkl on windows by default

* add warp_ctc back

* fix the dependency

* fix the dependency

* fix the build issue on windows

* remove unsupported flag on windows

* code style

* code style
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* fix issue

* add profiler, parallel_executor back

* clean up the pre-definitions on windows

* fix build issue

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