replace cross_entropy in python/paddle/fluid/tests/unittests/test_[a-n]*.py except test_dist_transpiler.py (#48913)

* isort all files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* update config

* re-blacken python code

* temporarily disable date and diff_py_file

* skip a format

* change fluid.mean to paddle.mean

* reverse some old code examples

* use tempfile to place temporary files

* update

* revert test_communicator

* fix test_dist_base

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

* test

* test

* rm test

* update

* update

* update

* add unittest

* update

* update save

* change username

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* update

* update

* update unittests

* fix

* update

* fix

* update

* fix

* fix

* fix

* update

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update send_and_recv op. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix ut. test=develop

* fix unit. notest,test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* update. notest,test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix. notest, test=coverage

* fix. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* add func. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* add trainer desc config to distributed strategy

* code style modified

* data_feed set lod

* fix bug

* code style

* fix bug

* save load

* save load

* save unittest

* add unittest of the_one_ps

* unittest

* add todo in communicator sendsparse

* fix cpp lint
* fix save/load with unexpected value
* fix save and user interface

* solve the initial configuration about fleet and rolemaker
Co-authored-by: NseiriosPlus <tangwei12@baidu.com>

* add save/load for parameter server