* polish tensor api details (#41971)

* [CustomOp] Fix custom op pinned input error (#41972)

* fix custom op pinned input error

* fix compile error

* fix inference custom op (#41999)

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi

* fix infrt compile failed

* resolve conflict

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* add pten kernel cmake

* add pten kernel cmake function

* fix compile error

* add enforce include for full kernel

* fix compile failed

* change cuda to gpu

* fix cmake function error

* adapt to inference api dir for pten

* fix conflit with develop

* fix test_egr_ds_eager_tensor compile failed