[Lite] Change the source code integration of Paddle Lite to the compilation library integration (#51405)

* [XPU] add increment op.

* fix ci

* support run haokanctr model in heterps-models

* polish setup.py

* polish JVM_LIB in evn_dict

* patch on gloo/types.h

* fix patch

* change patch dir

* add patch

* fix gcc12 error

* patch on device.cc

* fix gcc error while compiling gloo

* flash attn

* seed

* almost

* softmax

* fix workspace

* add unitest; linux only

* fix setup

* fix datatype include

* fix setup typo

* fix def scope

* new error api

* use paddle fork

* fix attr bug; complete ut

* update flash hash

* fix rng reset

* fix offset

* fix comments

* [kunlun] support reduce_scatter

* uncomment unittest

* update xccl to 1.0.10

* change protobuf version in pslib mode and link libjvm.so fot libps.so

* keep protobuf version same with pslib and enable compile with pslib

* update include directory

* fully support C++ extension, pass unittest

* fix include directory

* support both extension and operator in one file

* polish testcase

* add jit unittest

* update third_party.cmake, pass CI test

* fix cmake

* fix setup

* fix inference, fix unittest precision

* fix unittest precision

* fix inference_lib cmake

* try fix setup, try fix inference_lib

* try fix inference_lib pybind

* fix mix_op_extension, fix inference_lib

* fix mix_op_extension, fix inference_lib

* change cmake

* change cmake

* add compile flags

* add Python.h headerfile

* add test_custom_plugin_creater cmake

* comment compile flag

* pass all CI

* pass all CI

* comment compile flag

* try solve test_custom_plugin_creater link error

* try solve test_custom_plugin_creater link error

* polish codes

* remove windows compile flag

* remove python_include_path

* update pybind11, 2.4.3->2.6.0

* update pybind11, 2.6.0->2.10.0

* update pybind11, 2.10.0->2.6.0b1

* update pybind11, 2.6.0b1->2.6.0, start fix unittest

* fix pybind11 2.6.0 VarBase print error

* fix pybind11 2.6.0 VarBase print error

* handle PADDLE_ON_INFERENCE

* modify according to reviewer

* fix cmake

* cmake decouple pybind_util when not ON_INFER

* cmake decouple pybind_util when not ON_INFER

* remove copy of inference_lib.cmake

* change pybind.cc headerfile fluid->phi

* change SHA

* update to oneDNN 2.7

* update to 2.7.1

* update to 2.7.2

* add supported hardsigmoid

* update to 2.7.3

* limit cpu threads for int8 test

* group activations

* move platform::transform to phi

* fix bugs

* move transform_test to phi

* fix cmake

* update namespace

* fix cmake

* [XPU] update xccl to 1.0.8

* update xdnn. add uint8 for concat and split.

* update xdnn to 20230215.

* move profiler

* add file

* fix mac compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix mac bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix compile bugs

* perfect code according comment

* Improved prootbuf upgrades

* Improved prootbuf upgrades

* Improved prootbuf upgrades

* limit protobuf version>=3.20.0

* upgrade protobuf to 3.19.0 in cmake

* recover protobuf python version

* fix distribute compile

* fix

* fix framework.data_feed_pb2

* fix macos ifdef

* fix lite

* test

* update protoc from 3.19.0 t0 3.20.0

* test

* debug

* test

* test

* debug

* debug

* debug

* debug

* test

* debug

* update protocol from 3.20.0 to 4.21.12

* modify graph_brpc_client.h

* modify graph_brpc_client.h

* test

* test

* test

* fix third_party cache problem on build ci

* updata proto

* test

* test

* test

* test

* test

* test

* fix coverage failed test

* try to fix test_exe_fleet_model_run

* fix cinn bug

* fix windows compile problem

* fix python/requirements

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* fix feature_value.h and feature_value.cu to support pslib

* code style

* align DistPsArch pre-stable branch
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* unify_kernel

* fix compile bugs

* modify macro name

* perfect code according comment

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bug

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* modify code according comment

* rm conv_fusion_op