* [Phi] Support setting size of vector<Tensor> for out in yaml (#41576)

* support setting vector out size in yaml

* support setting size of vector<tensor> for out in yaml

* resolve conflict
Co-authored-by: Nzyfncg <zhangyunfei07@baidu.com>

* move slice to pten

* merge develop; test=develop

* fix slice bug;

* update

* update

* fix error

* update

* fix bug

* polish code

* polish code

* polish code

* try to fix windows bug

* add gpu compile flag;

* try to fix

* remov template;

* polish code;

* fix npu bug;

* fix npu bug

* fix npu bug; test=develop

* fix slice bug;

* remove no need dep