* [Phi] Support setting size of vector<Tensor> for out in yaml (#41576)

* support setting vector out size in yaml

* support setting size of vector<tensor> for out in yaml

* resolve conflict
Co-authored-by: Nzyfncg <zhangyunfei07@baidu.com>

cherry from #41481

* fix no pinned trans

* fix cond error

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error

* move part sum op kernel

* remove deprecated names

* add mean phi kernel

* remove original mean kernel

* add alias name

* transfer unsqueeze to phi

* fix conflict

* add squeeze

* add infershape

* fix xpu and npu error

* optimize performance of  C++ API

* remove stop_data_transform flag temparily

* move reduce_mean_grad kernel into phi

* move reduce_max/min_grad into phi

* remove raw max/min grad kernel

* fix bug

* fix max/min grad error

* move all reduce_grad kernel into one file

* add prod grad kernel

* add infermeta for prod kernel

* move assign kernel init commit

* change vec<tensor> to vec<tensor*>

* support tensor array

* support api declare

* fix test_list failed

* fix npu and xpu failed

* fix infrt failed

* remove assign array size in operator

* move assign sr header into sr dir

* add infermeta for assign

* test op success

* fix test_list failed

* fix kunlun failed

* add set host allocator in tests

* support tensor array in arg ctx

* open set layout in share_meta

* fix meta tensor layout error

* fix test failed

* add reduce_min kernel

* remove raw reduce_min kernel

* add reduce min

* add reduce any all impl

* add bool reduce Kernel

* remove raw any/all kernel

* add any all kernel

* rm comment

* move one hot to phi; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* add infer meta; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* resolve confilct

* resolve confilct

* fix bug;

* fix error; test=develop

* update; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* add one api in eager mode; test=develop

* add one hot test; test=develop

* remove use less code; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* add reduce_sum grad kernel

* add reduce_grad

* modify reduce grad

* update reduce grad functions

* fix build error

* add argument mapping

* move cast input after grad

* add dims.size=1 cpu reduce_sum grad compute method

* update reduce grad GPU

* remove raw reduce_sum_grad kernel

* modify header files

* add namespace funcs for reduce_grad_funcstions

* first commit

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix xpu and npu

* fix

* [Phi] Fix infershape if encounter TensorList and Attr("XXX")

* add InferShapeArgumentMappingContext

* first commit

* cpu kernel

* first version

* fix compile error

* fix compile error

* delete v2

* fix

* fix

* add alias

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix error

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix format

* add reduce_max kernel

* add reduce max kernel

* update reduce max Argumentmapping

* remove reduce_max kernel

* remove reduce_max kernel

* add reduce max infermeta

* rename reduce infermeta

* support isfinite for phi

* mark v2

* fixed bugs

* fixed include bugs

* deal with comments

* decoupling selected_rows

* rm bfloat16

* fixed infermeta

* fixed code style

* rm useless code

* replace pt by pd

* replace prefix pt by pd

* replace added kernel

* revert util change

* pd kernel to phi

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* move conv to pten

* move conv to pten; test=develop

* fix bug;

* add conv cudnn impl; test=develop

* update

* update operator; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* move operator and prepared_operator to develop; test=develop

* resolve conflict; test=develop

* remove useless code;test=develop

* add depency ; test=develop

* fix bug;

* add sig.cc ; test=develop

* fix use_op error; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* fix bug; test=develop

* add conv3d register; test=develop

* fix star gan and conv_nn_grad test failed; test=develop

* add header; test=develop

* manul to recover to develop;

* resolve confilct; test=develop

* remove useless code

* fix bug;

* remove conv2d_cudnn; test=develop

* fix bugs; test=develop

* fix cpu rocm compile bugs; test=develop

* fix blas error; test=develop

* fix compile bug; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* fix windows error; test=develop

* resolve confilct; test=develop

* modify infershape utils and rm reduce infershape

* merge develop

* fix infermete bug

* add IsForInferShape func in ArgumentMappingContext

* add reduce_mean infermeta

* modify annotation

* add default dims

* support kps backend and compile

* resolve conflict

* fix kps backend trans

* test in xpu2 device

* remove dummy kernel

* rename pten_utils to phi_utils

* rename pten_utils target

* rename Pten to Phi

* replace pten with phi

* resolve conflict

* support cudnn kernel moving

* polish cmake rules

* add unittest for coverage

* remove orig kernel

* remove softmax cudnn kernel

* fix softmax test failed

* fix npu func error

* resolve conflict

* rename gpu dnn kernels

* fix name rule error

* fix compile error

* update fp16 namespace

* rename pten to phi

* fix infrt compile failed

* resolve conflict

* [Phi] Fix XPU OP segmentation Fault problem

* fix cast_op_xpu in kunlun1

* fix cast_op_xpu in kunlun1

* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed