* move cross forward OP

* move cross grad op to phi

* move infershape

* refine infershape

* rename ctx

* set dtype and layout in InferMeta

* refine code

* Optimize the where_op by the elementwise_op funtion

* Modified where_op & abs_grad_op by elementwise interface

* move unbind to phi

* revert infer shape

* add header file

* move concat_and_split to phi

* [KP] Add elementwise add xpu, test=develop

* modify the File Permissions

* modify the copyright time

* modify code style

* modify code style

* change Vector to std::vector and provide MixVector class as a helper wrapper class

* solve the multi-gpu hang problem

* remove the duplicate template instantialize

* Copy vector to cpu

* add CopyToCPU

* xxx

* final version: fix the problem of all reduce

* remove mixvector dependence

* fix

* merge

* fix code

* fix by CI

* [Phi] Migrate unfold_op into phi

* fix im2col CPUContext template instantial

* fix unfold_op.h header include problem

* fix unittest

* fix PT->PD

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed