* Using the maximum workspace_size of all alogirhms to limit the workspace size in exhaustive search mode.

* Use the system cudaMalloc and cudaFree to allocate workspace during searching.

* Enable switch of two kind of workspace setting methods.
Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>

Add new APIs for GPU memory monitoring (max_memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved, memory_allocated, memory_reserved) (#38657)

* Add new API memory_reserved

* Add memory_allocated, max_memory_reserved and max_memory_allocater

* Fix CI error

* Fix CI error

* Enhance UT

* Add FLAGS_memory_stats_opt

* Add STATS macro functions

* Add StatAllocator

* Fix CI errors

* Add UT

* Fix CI errors

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Rough implementation for experiment

* Support allocate cuda managed memory

* Fix CI error

* Modify UT

* Check whether support memory oversubscription

* Fix ROCM Compile error

* Fix ROCM Compile error

* Fix UT cuda_managed_memory_test

* Set UT timeout to 40

* Add UT OOMExceptionTest

* Set UT timeout to 50

* Get GPU BasePtr from CUDA allocation

* Fix compile error for ROCm

* Add BasePtr function for IPUPlace in naive_best_fit_allocator.cc

* Add alignment for BuddyAllocator

* Set address alignment of BuddyAllocator to 32 bytes

* Fix CI error

* Remove code for naive_best_fit strategy

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

* update

* update

* update