* enhance add_position_encoding error message, test=develop

* enhance warpctc & scaled_dot_product_attention error message, test=develop

* modified error message and ctest of scaled_dot_product_attention, test=develop

* delete invalid check inferface Ref & VectorRef, test=develop

* fix vector ref delete error, test=develop

* try the new check inferface, test=develop

* change all related code with new check macro, test=develop

* remove static assert, test=develop

* polish detail, test=develop

* skip coverage problem, test=develop

* add new check macro, test=develop

* exhaustive search for cuDNN conv.
* Refine code and add unit testing.
* Fix model load in fluid/inference and unit testing in conv2d
* Follow comments.
* Fix compiling test=develop

This reverts commit ce7d9b07.

* exhaustive search for cuDNN conv.
* Refine code and add unit testing.
* Clean code
* Fix model load in fluid/inference and unit testing in conv2d
* Follow comments.

test=develop