1. modify set_value op, use Scalars to represent attr `values`, instead of a bunch of attributs of various types; (#52408)

2. add program converter and set_value op as an example, which provides the functionality to convert `paddle::framework::ProgramDesc` between old and new formats(the differences are mainly some operators with incompatible updates in the definition);
3. program version and operator version map now are always saved when serializing `paddle::framework::ProgramDesc` to identify the version;
3. provide an option `legacy_format=false` in  serialization of `paddle::framework::ProgramDesc`, it decided whether to convert ProgramDesc back to a legacy format, which is compatible for paddle 2.4.2 or earlier versions to load and execute;
4. deserialization of `paddle::framework::ProgramDesc` is now automatically detecting whether the bytes it receives is in legacy format(contains any of the operators that has been incompatibly updated and have any attribute of type `Scalar`) and convert it to new format. But if you want a faithful deserialization without the automatic conversion, you can use protobuf's deserialization instead. Though it is not recommended, it can be used for the purpose of testing.

* add fp16 data type for set_value

* cancel flip modification

* add fp16 dtype support for set_value

* split phi and fluid infermeta context

* resolve conflict

* fix type error

* optimize scheduling perf

* spec small vector size

* replace all grad var name

* fix test failed

* move init defalut signature

* polish details

* polish details

* fix no init bug

* init sig for tests

* add init sig for infer

* fix infrt error

* fix infrt failed

* fix kunlun error

* fix infrt failed

* move set_value_grad kernel form fluid to phi

* add unittest for passing coverage ci

* save code

* fix bug of set_value

* add coverage test