add squeeze_op/unsqueeze_op on kunlun;fix conv op and parallel executor;optimize lookup_table op (#31056)

* add squeeze_op/unsqueeze_op on kunlun; fix conv op and parallel executor on kunlun; optimize lookup_table op on kunlun

* update squeeze/unsqueeze op

* update conv2d & softmax to new xpu api
* test=kunlun

* remove useless comments
* test=kunlun

* remote softmax xpu op
* test=kunlun

* update kunlun softmax
* test=kunlun

* update xpu unitest
* test=kunlun

* fix elementwise_grad bug for kunlun
*test=kunlun

* polish error message,test=kunlun

* polish error,test=kunlun

* polish error,test=kunlun

* polish error,test=kunlun

* add conv for xpu, test=kunlun

* polish error_message, test=kunlun

* polish error_message, test=kunlun

* fix copyrigth, test=kunlun