* Add IndicateVarDataType interface to block tensor is not initialized problem in OP GetExceptedKernelType (#20044)

* add indicate_var_data_type inferface, test=develop

* add unittests & polish error message, test=develop

* remove needless include, test=develop

* extract public function & polish message, test=develop

* delete empty var check, test=develop

* change data_type to pointer parameter, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

* Replace risky GetInputType method with secure IndicateVarDataType interface (#20668)

* replace part of the old implementation, test=develop

* restore concat op, test=develop

* update all ops implemention & delete GetDataTypeOfVar func, test=develop

test=release/1.6

* Fix the GetExpectedKernelType of add_position_encoding_op.
test=develop

* Fix the doc of lstm_unit outputs in nn.py.
test=develop

fix ctest eager deletion disable bug
test=develop

test=develop