* move instance_norm

* change mutable_data

* fix compile bugs

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* move operators/math/math_function_* to pten/kernels/func
* namespace from `paddle::operators::math` to `pten::funcs`

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

* update

* update

* update

* fix softmax_with_cross_entropy cuda kernel overflow bug, test=develop

* replace old macro & for condition, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

* fix bn & in in dy, test=develop

* update instance_norm,test=develop

* fix bugs,test=develop

* add more case in unittest,test=develop

* fix,test=develop

* fix,test=develop

* update err info, test=develop

* update, test=develop

* fix instance norm

* update unitest,test=develop

* fix bn

* add instance norm op