[Paddle-Inference] support preln_ernie: add preln_embedding_eltwise_layernorm_fuse_pass, preln_skip_layernorm_fuse_pass (#39508)

* support preln_ernie

* support preln_ernie

* add fleet api for program pass

* turn on apply pass for CI test

* fix disable fuse_all_optimizer bug

* try to test ci

* fix CI

* fill unspecified op role

* fix fuse_allreduce

* add ut to improve coverage

* remove useless change

* improve c++ coverage

* follow some comments

* test ir pass pipeline

* update doc

* reduce ut time again

* add inplace passes and tests

* update

* fix use_cuda undefined
fix compile error of op compat

* add more ut

* fix CPU CI error

* check adam unique

* fix mac/windows ci, improve coverage

* fix ci error

* follow weihang's comment

* fix BlockDesc::MoveFrom

* follow qiuliang's comment

* update

* follow huihuang's comments

* add any.hpp to utils and replace boost::any with self defined paddle::any

* add copy any.hpp to custom op depends

* modify any.hpp include path

* remove boost from setup.py.in

* add copy any.hpp to custom op depends

* move any.hpp to paddle/utils/ dirs

* move any.h to extension/include direction

* copy utils to right directions

* add basic APIs

* add attr_types

* follow comments

* change pass attr types

* add set pass attribute codes

* refine PADDLE_THROW

* added support for fake_quantize_dequantize_abs_max op in quantization inference pass

* remove const_cast to pass ci

* remove compare operator to pass ci-coverage

* added detailed error message for unregistered tensorrt_subgrah_pass

* skip_layernorm_op done

* add unittest

* slice op convertor support trt < 6

* skip_layernorm only work in ernie

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* fix error msg report in ir/, about 19 files, test=develop

* modified some unclear descriptions, test=develop

* modified some unclear descriptions, test=develop

* modify unit test pass_test.cc, because the error report in pass.cc is used by pass_test.cc, test=develop

* remove REPLACE_ENFORCE_GLOG compile option & add ci rule prohibit LOG(FATAL) using, test=develop

* remove ci test case, test=develop

* replace all LOG(FATAL) & polish message, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* polish error info detail, test=develop

* Implement a common python unittest to test the ir passes.
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* Save the results in np.array and support to startup on CPU.
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* Fix the unittest.
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* Add check_program to check whether the optimized program is different from the origin one.
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* Remove the inferface all_ops.
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* Add exception test in pass_test.
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Add examples for error message writing specification - NotFound, OutOfRange, AlreadyExists, PermissionDenied (#21134)

* add examples for error msg spec, test=develop

* change ENFORCE to ENFORCE_**, test=develop

* add more already exists examples, test=develop

* open fuse optimization ops
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* modify the interface of Pass::Allay
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* Polish code
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* Fix Travis CI
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* fix Pass::Apply interface
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* Fix Travis CI
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Fix code to support cpplint syntax check

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add doc